Dear Crazy, Delusional Fans,
No, your favorite actor or actress does not want to date you, Full Stop.
When an actor you love gets a girlfriend, the appropriate response is not to start spouting slurs. This makes you look like a psycho bitch, and in fact, you are showing everyone how unstable you really are. You do not know her. You do not even know HIM. Frankly, your possessiveness over someone who does not know you exist and whom you have most likely never met is kind of terrifying.
When an attractive actor comes out of the closet, the correct response is NOT to exclaim that it’s “a huge waste.” No, you were never going to date him. No, he was not going to fall madly in love with you and father a gaggle of children. You are in fact being extremely disrespectful of him, his orientation, his choice, and his possible mate/family.
Saying that you are actually kind of glad he’s gay because you could not bear to see him with another woman is not only also disrespectful, but really sort of creepy.
You are delusional. You are creepy. You are part of what makes a lot of people consider the term ‘fangirl’ to be such a stigma. STOP IT.
(submitted by for-a-lark)